People
come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you
figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When
someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually
to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have
come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and
support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They
may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason
you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or
at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end.
Sometimes
they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or
out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our
need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The
prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When
people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn
has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have
never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of
joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME
relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said
that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank
you, all, for being a part of my life...
dyenny
